6 Tips for a Great First Date ❤️
"I'm tired of bad first dates," you mutter, sinking into the car seat with a sigh. No second-date plans are in sight and the frustration mounts. After all the anticipation, another disappointing evening feels like a setback. Now, you brace yourself for another week of swiping through Hinge and Bumble, wondering if you'll ever break the cycle.
Dear Nashville Daters,
We get it! It can be hard to get to the first date stage, and even when you do, preparing for it and making it go well can be challenging. To help, we prepared six tips for a great first date that can help your experience and success rate.
And for those who need help getting to that first date, we have many options that can help, such as the Daters Society Membership, our Personalized Matchmaking programs, our famous Dating Booster, and more.
Trying something different breaks the cycle and gets different results. Matchmaking Nashville can help you expand your network, change your strategy, transform your mindset, get feedback, etc. Our mission is not only making great introductions; it is ultimately guiding people to find their best relationship yet, and we do it also by providing singles with strategies, tools, and coaching.
When the goal and reward is to find your person, there are options, and you don’t have to do this alone. For now, put these tips into practice, and let us know if you need further support.
6 Tips for a Great First Date ❤️
1. Prepare yourself
Opt for a location that is comfortable and conducive to conversation. Bonus points if you choose it based on their preferences and your budget. Prepare an outfit that makes you feel confident and attractive, and plan your route to make it there a few minutes earlier.
2. Keep the Conversation Balanced and show you are present
Ask open-ended questions and show genuine interest in your date’s answers. Share your own stories, but avoid dominating the conversation. Stay in the present and share about future goals instead of dwelling on past experiences. Smile, make eye contact, and lean in slightly to show you are present and listening.
3. Bring your Authentic and Positive Self
Be honest about who you are and what you’re looking for. Authenticity fosters trust and sets the foundation for a meaningful relationship. Keep the conversation upbeat, and avoid complaints and negative or controversial topics. Positivity is attractive and can make your date more enjoyable.
4. Qualifying vs Disqualifying attitude
Are you looking for red flags or green flags? We recommend approaching the date with curiosity, looking for evidence that this could be a great person to keep getting to know. When you approach a date with an endless list of requirements and aim to disqualify the person, you might miss out on many surprises and information to discover.
5. Detach from the outcome
Enjoy the date regardless of what will happen next. You are there to have fun, connect with another person, and have a pleasant experience. If it goes to the next step, then great, and if it doesn't then you probably learned something.
6. Have a Plan for the Future
If the date goes well, suggest a follow-up activity or date. This shows that you are interested and looking forward to seeing them again. You can also be ready to continue as friends or part ways; in this case, communicate your decision kindly and clearly. You can always follow up with a brief text. #noghosting